Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Know a "Girl".....

1. Undoubtedly every girl loves 'Roses'. Start a relationship with it and continue with it.
2. Hug your girl tightly and with full confidence. try it in public (if she doesn't mind) and in front of friends.
3. Be a very good listener (Most Important). listen to your girl patiently and carefully and don't rush in providing solutions for a problem or advice until unless it is being sought.
4. Many girls don't reveal their problem or troubles they are facing. So, have a knack in identifying their problems even though they don't tell you.
5. Generally, most of the girls don't like guys who are possessive in nature. so next time be cautious. and in addition they even don't like the guys who are careless.
6. If a girl is angry due to reason whatsoever then try to persuade her and remember don't irritate her while doing it. Further, if you don't know how to do it, don't be anxious. just leave her alone and she will be calm down on her own say after few hours.
7. Trust and understanding are the two pillars of any relationship. trust your girl and show how much you trust your girl.
8. Everyone likes surprises. similarly girls. so do it. remember, don't give surprises at the wrong or odd occasions.
9. Of course, "i love you" is the most romantic phrase used at most of the times mostly in every relationship. so use it whenever u can.
10. Always remember every special day appeared in your life and don't forget to celebrate those.
11. At few occasions, you might think explanation or reason given by your girl is baseless and illogical. remember, don't argue for it, just listen them patiently. after few seconds or say few minutes, she will automatically change her statement which is fruitful many a times.
12. Just make her feel that how much important she is in your life.
13. Girls don't like when they are ignored or insulted esp. in public or in front of friends.
14. whenever, you talk to your girls always make eye contact. it shows your confidence in her.
15. Love without romance is like a well without water. so next time, infuse flavour of romance in talks to the possible extent. Remember, don't make romantic talks when she is in trouble.

     

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

A Soothing Nightmare


It is one night @ college. As usual, i rushed to bed, of course, to 'sleep'. Generally, in dreams we recall events occurred during the whole day. On internet i came across a damsel. without wasting much time, we started bakaring, chatting and became intimates. Thereafter, our life was full of joy and excitement. we showed immense affection for each other. Certainly, we exchanged messages and used to spend night talking each other. of course, there were fights too but in a very loving manner. Finally, a day came when i proposed her and urged her to be a part of my life. Without any hesitation she welcomed my proposal . After that We had many dates, enjoyed movies and in a nut shell had fun to the possible extent. As time goes on, things keep on changing. Unfortunately, there were differences of opinion. We didn't like the 'likes' of each other. we were on the poles apart. Things went on wrong paths. Tears were ready to come out of little tiny eyes. Apparently, eyes started blinking and opened suddenly. She disappeared and was in someone else arms. For sure a "NIGHTMARE" for me.

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Informal Formalities



Smoking is Prohibited in public places.




It's the law not to sell cigarettes and other tobacco products to people under 18.






Govt. of India invoked a law stating prohibition of employment of children below 14 illegal, except in family owned enterprises.



In India , prostitution itself (exchanging sex for money) is not illegal, but the surrounding activities (operating brothels , pimping, soliciting sex etc) are illegal.



The request, payment or acceptance of a dowry, "as consideration for the marriage" is strictly Prohibited . where "dowry" is defined as a gift demanded or given as a precondition for a marriage. Gifts given without a precondition are not considered dowry, and are legal.


To be Cont...

Monday, August 3, 2009

"Nada más que la verdad"

"MAI GEETA K UPAR HATH RAKH K KASAM KHATA HUN JO BHI KAHUNGA SACHKAHUNGA SACH K SIVA KUCH NAHI KAHUNGA".

These words r usually heard in the court but wat if we talk abt our daily life.??how many of us speak truth always.?r u afraid of speaking truth if it ruins ur life?do u feel comfortable in speaking truth.?

Many questions whirl around our mind when we speak or hear the word "TRUTH"? no doubt it is well said,"truth is always bitter".here i want to ask y one wants to lie? reason is not obscure,it is understood.if lies can sustain a relationship for a moment then wats the problem in it..?? but ...is it wat u really want..or wat it sud b..?? it is sure no one in this world speaks truth always.everyone has his secrets.everybody knows what wrong he has done in his life.but question is ...is it necessary to reveal our secrets in front of the world..??

A show named "sach ka samna" is airing on star-plus.i was very excited to watch this show but as the show was proceeded it became difficult for both of us(the contestant and me).i was abashed after hearing painful questions.i guess u r well aware of questions they ask in the show.it is difficult for me to understand why people want to appear in this show.one good reason may b they get money as a reward.another reason may b they want to confess in their life.we don't know wat happens after the show.??what calamity appears at their doors..??think,if one confesses that he/she once thought of killing his/her life partner.?we know the impact of such kind of confession.channel doesn't take care of the result of his/her confession. why a channel will..??it is there to earn money.that is wat it is doing.will u take care of it..?i guess ur ans is y we will..?? then who will suffer it..??? obviously the contestant and the persons associated with his/her will face the disaster



did we ever think of wat our parents ,sister or brother think abt us..??probably ans is never.do we need to speak truth always..?? we lie bcoz we get sth in return of it.confession is always appreciated.usually a woman will never left her home if her husband confesses he has slept with another women.shiney ahuja raped his maid but his wife still admits he is innocent.now its ur choice whether u want to confess of wat u have committed wrong in life or want to continue as it is going on.

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Homosexuality N Female Foeticides

Did u ever fascinate toward the same sex..?? are u homosexual..?? are u against of feminism..?? do u support female foeticides..??do u prefer boys over girls..??

You might b thinking y m i asking such questions. here i want to show u the output of these two menace when considered together.

At first m not against of "Homosexuality" but definitely against of "Female Foeticides" strongly.today if we look at the rate of rise of homosexuals and female foeticides, they are terribly shocking.













In India ,there r around 25 lakhs gays and around 36 lakhs lesbians.being homosexual is no more a crime in India but beware of the result of ur choice. it is sure society is not going to accept u people bcoz they think this is like a disaster to them.
firstly u need to think abt ur generation. u cant born a baby urself. either u have to adopt a child or u will have to go to sperm bank. secondly, how ur offspring will face this hell world..? will ur relationship b lasting..?? if u r attracted towards same sex just to get pleasure with them then u don't need to marry. if u want to marry to ur partner then plz plz consider the hurdles that will b faced by u , ur children n society in the future.for e.g today, a girl is raped by the man only but think if she is raped by she.. it can b funny for u but it has deep meaning. a feeble man can be gang raped by the homosexual persons. imagine u r travelling by a train,bus or nething else, a man or a women is staring u continuously,if u r straight then u wiil be felt insecure and fearful.

Lets talk abt the rising cases of female feoticides. in today's time people want boys than girls. there r few factors which are responsible of having such choice by such cruel people like Social Security,Evil of Dowry,Financial Dependence of Females on Husband or In laws and Cultural Factors.i wont elaborate them.The killing of women exists in various forms in societies the world over. Female foeticide is an extreme manifestation of violence against women. The sex ratio has altered consistently in favour of boys since the beginning of the 20Th century. the effect has been most pronounced in the states of Punjab, Haryana and Delhi. The adverse sex ratio has been linked with the low status of women in Indian communities, both Hindu and Muslim. The status of women in a society can be determined by their education, health, economic role, presence in the professions and management, and decision-making power within the family. Islam permits polygamy and gives women fewer rights than men. The birth of a son is regarded as essential in Hinduism and many prayers and lavish offerings are made in temples in the hope of having a male child. Religion operates alongside other cultural and economic factors in lowering the status of women.
Consequences of female foeticides
In rural areas, as the number of marriageable women declines, men would tend to marry younger women, leading to a rise in fertility rates and thus a high rate of population growth. The abduction of girls is an associated phenomenon. The Hindustan Times recently reported that young girls from Assam and West Bengal are kidnapped and sold into marriage in neighbouring Haryana.there will be scarcity of girls.According to Chinese estimates, by 2020 there are likely to be 40 million unmarried young men. A society with a preponderance of unmarried young men is prone to particular dangers. More women are likely to be exploited as sex workers. Increases in molestations and rape are an obvious result. The sharp rise in sex crimes in Delhi have been attributed to the unequal sex ratio.













Both are crime against humanity. Homosexuality will disrupt procreation hence ceases continuity in human race.can we imagine India without females..?? can we realize our country after 30yrs from now if these two phenomenon continue to exist...?? so friends plz wake up to save our country.